By Douwe Draaisma
Weaving jointly an attractive array of literary, historic, and medical resources, the writer considers forgetting from each attitude. He pierces fake clichés and asks vital questions: Is a forgotten reminiscence misplaced ceaselessly? What makes a colleague keep in mind an concept yet omit that it was once yours? Draaisma explores “first thoughts” of youngsters, how reviews are translated into reminiscence, the controversies over repression and “recovered” stories, and peculiar examples of reminiscence disorder. He movingly examines the effect on own thoughts whilst a hidden fact involves mild. In a persuasive end the writer advocates the undervalued perform of “the paintings of forgetting”—a set of ideas that help in erasing thoughts, thereby keeping beneficial relationships and inspiring own contentment.
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Even the sometimes decidedly peculiar content of our dreams is no guarantee that we will file them away. Moreover, the realisation that there is something odd about the events of a dream usually comes later, when you relate or contemplate the dream. You then spot one incongruity after another: people who could never have met, dead people brought back to life, people who turn up out of nowhere and with whom you start chatting without first asking where they have suddenly sprung from. In dreams you may be able to speak fluent Spanish, or you meet someone in Berlin even though you 36 forgetting were at home a moment ago.
You wake up and still have access to bits of the dream. But as you try to bring the dream more clearly to mind, you notice that even those few fragments are already starting to fade. Sometimes there is even less. On waking you are unable to shake off the impression that you have been dreaming; the mood of the dream is still there, but you no longer know what it was about. Sometimes you are unable to remember anything at all in the morning, not a dream, not a feeling, but later in the day you experience something that causes a fragment of the apparently forgotten dream to pop into your mind.
The great merit of studies such as Eacott and Crawley’s is that they first memories: islands in the stream of forgetting 29 explain why. An appraisal of the reliability of individual first memories has to rely on general ideas about maturation and growth. Given what we know about the development of the brain during the first year of life and the initial stages of the development of cognitive capacities, it would be impossible to recall hearing a chaconne by Bach at the age of two months. The same goes for that triumphal arch in the hedge seen by a three-monthold baby, or the floral-patterned fabric of the pram that Jan Wolkers said he remembered.